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just wondering.. let me know what you think guys... if a guy hits a girl, does that make him an asshole? and do you have to know anything more than he hit her to know he's an asshole? i was told it's not fair for me to call a guy an asshole who hit a girl because i don't know him... help me understand this? Maybe he just had a muscle spasam and slapped her across the face... i guess it's a good possibility.. but nah, i'm stickin with that he's an asshole. but yet her other excuse is, i hit him first... does it still make it right? nah, a real man will learn to walk away from it. oh.... and the reason she stays with him is because "she loves him".. you love him, but it doesn't sound like he loves you!! evn if you do love him, there comes a time when you need to realize that you can and will love again, perhaps the next time someone who will treat you right. he also better watch his back..yea i'm not hte biggest of guys..but i'm pretty sure i can get plenty of help behind me who would want to beat the shit out of this little faggot for hitting his girlfriend. so if you can't answer the other question, then answer this, why is it that girls like assholes? working a detail at LOF with the ladder truck from 12:30-4:30ish.. be home around 5? cell it if you'd like